A study recently came out from Stanford “showing that small amounts of social support, ranging from friends who encourage each other by email to occasional meetings with a fitness counselor, can produce large and lasting gains against one of America’s biggest health problems—physical inactivity.” Now, you may be wondering how this is applicable to this blog since the topic is Noisy Coworkers, not Unhealthy Coworkers. Stay with me for a minute while I explain.

Your Work Buddy may have to close the mini-blinds for you so you can actually concentrate.

I would like to propose that you could also use social support to help keep yourself on track while you are working. I know. Gasp! We are always decrying conversational distraction, among many other forms. However, there are just some days, like today when it is SO nice outside and I keep finding myself peering through the mini-blinds, wishing I was outside, that it would be nice to have a Work Buddy to gently encourage me to stay on track and to keep going. I suspect you might have the same problem occasionally–you have blocked out all the other distractions, but your mind just keeps wandering. Perhaps you could then inform your Work Buddy that it would be nice if, every once in a while, they would email you or just walk over and say “You can do it! Keep working!” or something similarly encouraging. It sounds cheesy, but based on the results of that study, I bet it would work.

So, I’ll be your Work Buddy today. “You can do it! Keep working!” (And now I am going to go close my mini-blinds so the gorgeous weather will quit calling out to me.)

Do you feel like someone calls your name just when you being to focus on a task?

Think about your typical work day.  Then, pretend like you have a virtual highlighter to underline what you relate with from the following excerpt:

Yeah, my feeling is that the modern workplace is structured completely wrong. It’s really optimized for interruptions. And interruptions are the enemy of work. They are the enemy of productivity, they are the enemy of creativity, they are the enemy of everything. But that’s what the modern workplace is all about, it’s interruptions. Everyone’s calling meetings all the time, everyone’s screaming people’s names across the thing, there’s phones ringing all the time. People are walking around. It’s all about interruptions. And people go to work today, and then they end up doing most of their real work after work, or on the weekends. So, people are working longer hours, people are tired – I’m working 50-60 hours this week. It’s not that there’s 50 or 60 hours worth of work to do, it’s because you don’t work at work anymore. You go to work to get interrupted.

Maybe it was working on nights and weekends just to get the job done or maybe it was the idea of distractions and interruptions in general…either way, it sounds like the modern worker isn’t getting a whole lot of work done from 9-5.

So, what can you do?

There are a variety of options for dealing with frustrations at work:

  • Get really mad and pout.
  • Complain to you coworkers and ensure that they, too, have to spend their nights and weekends doing what they should have been doing while they were listening to you.
  • Do something about it.

You might see which way I’m gonna go with this, and you may have thought o it yourself and just been unsure how to be proactive.  So, the first step is always admitting you have a problem: this time it’s realizing that you can’t control the work environment.  The next step is taking control of what you can, which is minimizing distractions and their effects.  Here are a few distraction-minimizing techniques:

  • Set a reasonable limit on how frequently you check your email, especially your personal mail.  It may work for you to check it 3 times: first thing in the morning, around lunch, and end of day.  However, your work may be directly related to checking email, so you will have to be the judge.  It’s still wise to limit personal activity at work.
  • Restrain your socializing.  It’s healthy to take breaks and enjoy water cooler gossip, but hanging around the break room most of the work day is not.  Again, think about being strategic- when you grab your morning coffee, purpose to chat for 5 minutes, but no more.
  • Pair your social breaks with work breaks- to avoid eye strain, it’s wise to frequently blink and focus on something other than the computer screen.  So, take a few minutes every hour to rest your eyes, stretch your back, neck, and shoulders, and get a few minutes of talking in.
  • Try white noise, like this free white noise generator, to block irritating or distracting noises (see above for great examples of typical distractors!).

By experimenting with how you spend your time and what you let distract you, you should be able to reclaim your nights and weekends by actually getting your work done- at work!


There are a lot of distractions at the office…

Evidently, most of them are a direct result of your own doing. Go figure. Here are a few tips to help you:

  1. The key board is for doing work- go ahead and keep that one.
  2. The mouse is also pretty useful- you might wanna keep that one around too.
  3. Use the disinfectant and put it away.  Like in a drawer.
  4. Play your games at home.  Unpopular, sure.  But work is for work- if you don’t want to work evenings and weekends, be more productive during the day.  Revolutionary, I know.
  5. Quit videoing your desktop and try white noise.  It might keep your attention in place.

Recently I have been thinking about how I use my time. I am HORRIBLE about wasting time. Like just now, when I was supposed to be writing this blog post, I might have wasted an inordinate amount of time on Facebook and reading blogs. When I was working in an office it wasn’t the internet that kept me distracted, but it was conversations with my co-workers. If there was a conversation, I wanted to be in on it! (Can you tell I am an extrovert?) I am not a task oriented person if other people are around that I can interact with. Consequently, I ended up taking longer on a project than I needed to or causing myself undue stress trying to meet a deadline. Now, since I work from home, I end up working at undesirable hours because I might have squandered away the desirable hours wasting time. I know I am not the only person who struggles with this.

Obviously I need to be more purposeful with my time. I know this is a cliché, but it works and it is true. I need to:

Work hard: This is simple, but it is really difficult for me to do sometimes (especially when I am supposed to be doing

Git-R-Done

it). Work hard when you are supposed to be working hard so that you can stop when it is time to stop and not feel guilty about it. For myself, that means getting away by myself so that there is no one else to interact with and buckling down. That may not be possible for others, so you could use headphones to listen to music or white noise to drown out the distractions in the background so that you can concentrate on the task at hand. As my father in law likes to say (and incidentally Mater too): Git R done!

Play hard: Since you have finished you work, you can now play hard. Whether this means spending time with your significant other, your kids, or just watching TV, you can do it with a clean conscience. This is what this time has been allotted for, so enjoy it!

Sleep hard: You have to have enough rest to be able to accomplish the above tasks. Do whatever you have to do, but getting enough sleep is important.

Now if only I didn’t need the internet to do my work so that way Facebook wasn’t always calling out to me…..

Getting distracted at work can be pretty dangerous….and possibly embarrassing.

When I’m distracted at work, I don’t fall out of my chair or cause a computer to become animate and literally jump off my desk.  Maybe it’s because I’m your average female and don’t stare at men walking by.   Or maybe that’s not true at all.  I may be happily married and thus uninterested in checking guys out, but I do stare at people…a lot.  I look at their clothes and hair, picture a similar style on myself and either store it for future implementation or discard it altogether, possibly feeling pity for the poor soul currently wearing said style.  Regardless, I do find myself distracted quite a bit, and not just visually.  In fact, it’s conversational distractions that get me the most.  Never mind my resolution to gossip less, throw some juicy tidbit in my ear shot, and I am a goner.  Bless my heart- and the person’s being maligned.

What about you?  What distracts you?