Experienced Travel
We have done a lot of traveling with our 2 kids. It used to be that taking the short 2-hour flight with one very content child from Iowa to Texas would stress me out. 2 years, 1 child, and dozens of flights later, I chuckle as I think about all the places and time zones we’ve been in. Very little stresses me out now. Maybe that’s a wee overstatement, but I usually fly very confidently with both my children.
Most of my confidence comes from experience and preparedness. I usually think through all the timing and changes I can and try to plan accordingly. I have come to know both what bothers my children and what aides them in getting the rest they need, regardless of the time zone or transportation. I have also resigned myself that travel of any kind just doesn’t afford kids the same routine, and that’s okay. Losing a few hours of sleep is the price we pay for the privilege of traveling.
Do You Have a Sound Machine?
I will say that one of our funnier moments was when we caught a late night flight from Germany back to Scotland, but not our city. We landed at 11pm and still had a 3 or 4 hour drive to get home. In hindsight, we should have gotten a hotel. Sadly we assumed that our kids would nod off and sleep most of the time. Well, that didn’t happen. Our older daughter did her best to sleep, but our son, bless his heart, was continually disturbed by the lights from the oncoming cars. He would wake up, screaming, right next to his sister. Since they both are normally quiet while sleeping, our daughter had never had to deal with this kind of noise. She did her best to sleep through it, but finally asked with bleary eyes and a tired voice, “Do you have a sound machine?”
That was the day (well, the night) we learned several things. First, if it’s well after bed time for everyone, go ahead and get a hotel room. Second, do what you can to prepare the kids for the changed environment by talking about it ahead of time. Lastly, bring our portable sound machine for overnight car trips.



